What If Talking Could Bring You Closer?

You’ve Stopped Fighting — But You’re Still Not Meeting Each Other

You’ve named the painful pattern.
You’ve learned how to pause it.
Now you’re both standing in the quiet wondering how to actually find each other.
Without the disconnection loop, there’s a new space! But you don’t know how to fill it — without tension, shutdown, or retreat.
Here’s the part no-one teaches you —how to speak in a way that creates warmth, safety, and real connection again, as equals.
Soul Speak teaches you how to meet openly and fully in that space.

With words that open and draw you nearer.

With presence that isn’t an effort.

With communication that builds actual intimacy — no-one doing more emotional lifting than the other.
Mukti Jarvis

A Gentle Guide for Something You Were Never Taught

Hi, I’m Mukti.

I’ve spent over 20 years supporting couples and individuals in returning to what’s real — not just in theory, but in the actual, everyday moments where intimacy is shaped.

I’m an accredited Emotionally Focused Couples Therapist, a certified Nonviolent Communication Trainer, and an internationally registered Chi For Two Embodiment Coach and Trainer.

But what truly anchors this course is my deep, long-time love of Nonviolent Communication —
a simple, powerful model that helps people move from protection into presence, without blame or retreat.

Most of us were never taught how to speak in a way that deepens connection. And often, there’s unlearning to do before connection becomes safe again.

This is what Soul Speak offers:
A warm, clear, usable way to come back into real emotional contact —
especially when real closeness and depth feels out of reach.

Mukti Jarvis Emotionally Focused Therapist

 

What you'll unlock inside Soul Speak.

🔍 Why calm conversations still leave you disconnected
You’ve stopped reacting — but no one’s reaching. This is why.

💬 Exactly what to say when things feel tense, flat, or emotionally off
When you sense the shutdown coming — this is how to stay connected without pushing through it.

🛑 How to stop trying to fix the moment — and learn how to feel it together
Because presence, not performance, is what creates safety

 

👁 The core emotional shift that lets your partner feel you — not just hear you
It’s not about “good communication.” It’s about how you’re meeting the moment.

🧭 The moment-to-moment map that helps you return to contact mid-spiral
So you don’t have to choose between shutting down and escalating.

💡 What empathy actually sounds like — and why most couples miss it completely
It’s not being nice. It’s being with. This teaches you how.

📜 A clear, usable model for how to listen without losing yourself
So your partner can open — without you collapsing your truth.

Modules

Module 1 – Connecting to yourself

  • Calm and collect yourself if triggered by your partner
  • Give up blame and be proactive about your emotions and needs
  • Know what matters most to you at any point, so you shape your life and relationship from this clarity
  • Be honest and compassionate with yourself, so you can show up like this for your partner too

Module 2 – Listening Deeply

  • Listen skilfully to your partner and through this create safe loving space for deep connection
  • Understand how to bring empathy during difficult conversations with your partner, so healing can happen
  • Give the experience of truly being heard to your partner
  • Listen and uncover the REAL issue so you can address what is important effectively

Module 3 – Speaking Up

  • Say what you really want to say with compassion and so you can be fully understood by your partner
  • Express yourself so you tend to ‘pull’ for connection with you partner, rather than trigger emotional distance or upset
  • Put the essence of what you need to say to your partner clearly so you can build strong connection
  • Ask for what you want and need in ways that are attractive and clear

Module 4 – Putting it all together

    • Converse in a way which supports open and real connection with your partner
    • Recognise when it’s time to speak, listen or switch over to understanding your own thoughts, feelings and needs
    • Find out how to heal and strengthen connection through everyday conversations with your partner

soul speak

Connection Essentials for intimacy, that doesn't cost you yourself
$ 197
  • Access to 10 modules containing 29 topics
  • Downloadable illustrations for quick refresh!
  • Easy Guides for everyday use
  • Bonus: Four Ways To Hear A Message
  • Bonus: Being comfortable with feelings
  • EXCLUDES Related Course: "Back To Love"

soul speak

Connection Essentials for intimacy, that doesn't cost you yourself
$ 222
  • Access to 10 modules containing 29 topics
  • Downloadable illustrations for quick refresh!
  • Easy Guides for everyday use
  • Bonus: Four Ways To Hear A Message
  • Bonus: Discover Your Real Feelings
  • Bonus "Arguing That Connects" Guide
  • Certificate of completion
  • All future updates and additions
  • *** INCLUDES Related Course: "Back To Love" ***
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Commitment

  • 4 sections each approximately 60-90 minutes each.
  • Do one section at a time – spread out to suit yourself. 
  • Practice as you go through daily life
  • Revisit Soul Speak: Connection Essentials anytime – Lifetime access.

MONEY BACK GUARANTEE

If you’ve done the course and we can’t help you get what you’re here for, we will refund 100% of your purchase.

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