We create relationships from the inside out. When we want to change how our relationships are operating, it’s an inside job.

Mukti Jarvis

Mukti Jarvis is a member of the The International Centre for Excellence in Emotionally Focused Therapy (ICEEFT), the international Center for Nonviolent Communication and the Melbourne Community for EFT Therapists. She is an accredited EFT Therapist, certified Nonviolent Communication Trainer and Mediator(CNVC) and an experiential attachment oriented Psychotherapist and Counsellor.

She studied along side the late founder of CNVC, Dr. Marshall Rosenberg, in Switzerland, USA and Australia before co-training with with him in New Zealand.  She is trained and supervised by Dr Jenny Fitzgerald, Australia’s founding EFT trainer.

Mukti has an extensive history in both corporate and private sector business, in HR and General Management.  All through her professional life, human connection, emotional honesty, dignity and wellbeing have been the priority.

Mukti is sought out as a skilful facilitator and presenter. She brings attachment theory, compassionate communication, conflict resolution and relationships together to create practical, experiential workshops and events. Mukti has delivered programs for global and local businesses, school communities, tertiary health education, and franchise organisations.

Her inclusive private practice for couples, individuals and families/ groups has been operating since 2003.

With her commitment to relationship wellbeing and intimacy, Mukti is available to contribute to media discussions and publications.

Mukti meets with people in-person, in Melbourne’s inner-north in Abbotsford weekly, and intermittently in Sydney. She is also available nationally and internationally, online in Zoom.

Mukti is a member of:
International Center for Excellence in EFT
Australian Center for EFT
Melbourne Center for EFT
International Center for Nonviolent Communication
NVC Australia
International Institute for Complementary Therapists

I look forward to meeting you.

What is Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFCT)?

EFT is extensively empirically validated as the most successful approach for building loving relationships. It has a 75% success rate and even those who don’t complete the process in full, experience a 90% improvement in their relationship. It is irrefutable now that our early attachment bonding experiences shape our relationships. That can be helpful or unhelpful!

EFT has a structured approach – de-escalating the negative cycle; restructuring the bond; integrating the positive cycle. Long after completing this process couples report their relationship is increasingly loving and resilient.

EFT is relevant for ALL relationships!

What is NVC?

NVC is the language of the positive cycle i.e. connection. It is a fabulous way to establish and support directing attention away from our thoughts, negative perceptions of the world and ourselves; instead we direct attention back inward toward making heart-felt interactions that embrace emotions and common human needs —both our own and our partners. NVC stands for Nonviolent Communication. Nonviolent meaning compassionate, honest, present – in the way Gandhi and Martin Luther King used it.

It helps us find and take actions from the energy of love and connection.


Our Live Learning or Online Courses and Practice will give you new insights and understandings about how that can help you to deepen your connection.

Online Courses and Practice will give you new insights and understandings about how that can help you to deepen your connection.

In-person support is absolutely your first step so you can:

  1. Step out of the negative cycle of interactions you currently have and address the painful emotions behind it.
  2. Have the healing conversations you both need so you can build trust and intimacy.
  3. Embody the positive cycle of connection that strengthens your relationship for years to come.
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