We create our relationships from the inside out. When we want to change the way our relationships are operating, it’s an inside job.
Hi, I’m Mukti.
I have 15+ years of professional experience and education in love, connection, couples and family relationships.
I’m accredited with the international Center for Nonviolent Communication and worked along side the late founder, Dr. Marshall Rosenberg, co-training. I also studied directly with him intensively in Switzerland, the USA, Australia and New Zealand.
I’m one of the first 4 trainers for the Center for Nonviolent Communication in Australia and was a co-founder of the largest comprehensive program for integrating NVC for 6 years. I love creating community and the journey of deep transformative change.
Two or more ie. a couple, family or team relationship situation has an extra dynamic.
Often times it can require more than learning Nonviolent Communication (NVC) which is the language of connection, to deeply transform the foundations of a relationship. For that reason I became an Emotionally Focused Couple Therapist. Literally the world’s empirically proven best couple therapy model.
EFCT and my own inner work, uniquely shape how I share NVC. To date I am the only person both accredited in EFCT and NVC. Hopefully that changes, because these two modalities are an incredibly powerful combination.
I’m the first (and only in Australia) to deliver comprehensive Online Learning of NVC. I’m certainly not super techy. I just feel compelled to reach out widely and contribute in an easily digestible, loving way using technology. More about this below.
Intimate Relationship and Love has been my specialist area, since 2002.
My private couple work (EFCT) is supported by Dr. Jenny Fitzgerald, Australia’s foremost Emotionally Focused Couple Therapy therapist trainer for EFCT. You’re in good hands and thoroughly supported as you step out toward more of what some part of you knows, is possible in relationship.
I find my local beaches and hill-walking in the early morning, having a cup of tea with a friend, or an electricity free evening .. just candles! are great ways for me to relax and put down technology.
I look forward to meeting you…
Relationship and Communication Therapist
CNVC accredited Trainer and Facilitator
Why is Everyday Love online?
Someone dear to me needed relationship support and I was too close to be able to contribute. Time and money were limiting factors too.
On top of this, every morning I go to the beach. People were saying their partners would not be willing to see someone for relationship help.
Add to this we live with cultural messages that generate shame and confusion around emotions. So reaching out for therapy or a workshop, can also have a stigma.
These three challenges, confirmed my dream of providing relationship resources online could be a viable solution for many. It would give private, accessible, affordable, support that is professional and transformative.
A special plus is that I know that therapy is profoundly unique in the depth of change it can facilitate. SO I have also designed the courses to super-charge private therapy. Again reducing the number of sessions and increasing the depth achieved in the therapeutic environment.
This is why you now have Everyday Love online!!
What is Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFCT)?
EFT is extensively empirically validated as the most successful approach for building loving relationships. It has a 75% success rate and even those who don’t complete the process in full, experience a 90% improvement in their relationship. It is irrefutable now that our early attachment bonding experiences shape our relationships. That can be helpful or unhelpful!
EFT has a structured approach – de-escalating the negative cycle; restructuring the bond; integrating the positive cycle. Long after completing this process couples report their relationship is increasingly loving and resilient.
EFT is relevant for ALL relationships!
What is NVC?
NVC is the language of the positive cycle ie. connection. It is a fabulous way to establish and support directing attention away from our thoughts, negative perceptions of the world and ourselves; instead we direct attention back inward toward making heart-felt interactions that embrace emotions and common human needs —both our own and our partners. NVC stands for Nonviolent Communication. Nonviolent means compassionate, honest, present – in the way Gandhi and Martin Luther King used it.
It helps us find and take actions from the energy of love and connection.
IS EVERYDAY LOVE FOR YOU?
Our Live Learning or Online Courses and Practice will give you new insights and understandings about how that can help you to deepen your connection.
Online Courses and Practice will give you new insights and understandings about how that can help you to deepen your connection.
In-person support is absolutely your first step so you can:
- Step out of the negative cycle of interactions you currently have and address the painful emotions behind it.
- Have the healing conversations you both need so you can build trust and intimacy.
- Embody the positive cycle of connection that strengthens your relationship for years to come.