Back To Love

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Back To Love

What if the moments pulling you apart could become the very moments that bring you closer?

You know those moments when something shifts between you?

A conversation that was going along perfectly normally suddenly isn’t.

One of you feels hurt.
The other feels misunderstood.

The atmosphere changes.

And before either of you knows how you got there, you’re back in a place you’ve both visited far too many times.

I know how much that hurts.
Not only because of what gets said, but because of what follows.

The distance and the tension.

The feeling that you and the person you love most, suddenly aren’t on each other’s side.

And perhaps the hardest part is the thought:

“Are we really doing this again?”

Because neither of you wants this.
Yet it keeps happening.

And after a while that becomes frightening or overwhelming to say the least.

You might even be wondering why love doesn’t seem to be enough to stop this.

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You’ve probably noticed how quickly a conversation can stop being about what it started about?

That isn’t a character flaw or a relationship failure.

What it says is that the two of you are getting caught in something neither of you can fully see while you’re inside it.

That’s why two kind, thoughtful people like you, can suddenly find themselves feeling like each others adversary!

Imagine this

💛 That a difficult conversation no longer inevitably ruins your evening or weekend.

💛 You’re able to feel the vibe shift between you, and know how to refocus together.

💛 One misunderstanding no longer becomes three days of  distance.

💛 The focus and calmness of no longer replaying messy conversations in your head.

💛 Trusting you can find your way back to each other. More easily, more often and with far less hurt.

That's exactly why I created Back To Love

For couples who know there’s something worth protecting here, but are weary of how quickly it gets lost in moments neither of you ever intended. 

When you’re spending more time recovering from painful moments than enjoying each other, it’s difficult to discover what’s really possible between you.

Back To Love begins right there.

Those moments are telling you something. Once you understand what they’re trying to show you, everything begins to feel different.

It’s a course, designed to be completed in 2 hours, on a weekend. For many couples, that weekend marks the beginning of a very different way of meeting themselves and each other.

“My partner probably won’t do this.”  

I hear this a lot. The good news is your partner doesn’t have to join in, for change to start happening.

You can begin the course and your discoveries will change the way you show up almost immediately. 

One of the most common things I hear is:

“I hadn’t even said a thing about the course and they started behaving differently…. wish I’d understood this stuff years ago.”

YES, LET'S BEGIN BACK TO LOVE

By the end of Back To Love
you'll see things differently

  • Why the same arguments keep finding you.
  • What happens in the moments before connection breaks down.
  • Why both of you can leave the very same conversation feeling hurt and misunderstood.
  • How to interrupt the reactive pattern before it takes over.
  • How to find your way back to each other more quickly when it does.

What Participants Say...

"Wow, I found this eye opening. I've taken lots of relationship type courses, but this hit deep but not heavy and it's actually worked. Feeling different.
Michelle
WA Australia
"We went through the course together and are surprised to feel much closer and less tense. What was upsetting us has shifted and it feels softer between us again.
J.D
VIC Australia
"There's so much stuff in the Back To Love course. I repeated it today and learned even more. It's supportive, insightful and useful. Thank you Mukti.
Alan
VIC Australia
"I'm shocked! I thought she was just more emotional than me ... turns out I wasn't hearing what was underneath. I feel better and I want to do whatever it takes to reconnect with her.
David
NSW Australia

Who's Guiding You Back To Love?

Hi, I’m Mukti.

For over 20 years, I’ve been fascinated by the moment when something suddenly clicks.

The moment two people begin to see themselves—and each other—differently is often the moment everything starts to change.

I’ve sat with couples at kitchen tables and on therapy couches, helping them untangle decades of distance and disconnection.

I’m an internationally accredited Emotionally Focused Couples Therapist, Nonviolent Communication Trainer, and Chi For Two Embodiment Coach and Trainer (R/SMET).  

This course brings together the relational patterns I’ve seen play out behind closed doors — and the powerful tools that bring people back to safety, softness, and real connection.

It’s based on the pivotal work of three giants! Dr. Sue Johnson and the science of adult attachment. Dee Wagner’s profound body-oriented processes and the revolutionary work of Dr Marshall Rosenberg, on communication and needs consciousness.

It’s all deeply usable. Gentle. No psychobabble. No ‘ripping off a bandaid’ stuff.

A new way to see your old dynamics… and a very real way start towards more depth and connection with each other.

Mukti Jarvis Emotionally Focused Therapist

The research behind this…

Back To Love isn’t personal opinion. It is what the research actually shows — translated into something you can feel and use immediately.

Dr Sue Johnson

Creator of Emotionally Focused Therapy, whose research shows that emotional safety is the foundation of lasting love.

Dr Marshall Rosenberg

Creator of Compassionate Communication, (NVC) whose work transforms the way we express ourselves and hear each other.

Dee Wagner

Creator of Chi For Two, whose somatic approach brings the body's intelligence into the way we connect and repair in two person relationship.

Special Bonuses

+ how to calm, When You're Upset

+ perspective shift without losing yourself

+ Handle Reactivity: Micro-PracticeS for Tense MOMENTS

Think you’re not good with feelings? What if it’s not as confusing as you think? 

These bonuses will walk you through feelings so you can get comfortable with them and are able to move toward new intimacy and connection! 

Emotions are the life blood of relationship when we can be with them in a healthy way. They can open you up to healthy vulnerability and intimacy – only when you know what to do with them AND what NOT to do with them.

Back To Love Course

COME BACK TO LOVE

A different relationship begins with seeing differently

One afternoon. One shift in perspective. Hundreds of future conversations begin to change. 

$ 97
  • 5 Short Video Based Modules, 12 Topics
  • Handy "stick it on the fridge" Visuals
  • Quick Support Docs To Help You Anytime
  • Zero fluff! Just Proven Guidance That Works.
  • Lifetime Access
  • Complete In An Afternoon
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** Prices are in AUD **

Still Wondering?

 That’s okay. This is built for you — and designed to work whether you’re navigating this solo or together.

Because therapy is deep. This is direct. You don’t need 10 sessions to understand why you’re stuck. You need the right lens. And that’s what this gives you. You might go on to therapy and if you do, you’ll know you’ve got a head start!

You will gain understanding about avoiding disconnecting and blocking connection and creating a loving connection.

Everything you learn is related to your life and relationships through practical exercises. You can ask questions in Love and Us – my open facebook group or book for private support if needed.

If you watch the videos, complete the exercises and try the tools, and nothing shifts — we’ll refund you. But most people come back saying this changed things faster than they thought possible.

Most people invest about 60-90 minutes.

Yes you can book an appointment for an Introductory Session, to get private therapy assistance (depending on availability). 

Yes if you’re curious, growth-oriented, and not willing to spend the rest of your life in a relationship that doesn’t reflect who you’ve become.

You’ve invested in your own development and you’re ready to bring that same commitment to your partnership.

You don’t need to be in crisis. You just need to be honest enough to feel the gap — and ready enough to do something real about it.

It’s not for you if:
You’re looking for ways to manage or change your partner. You want quick fixes without self-reflection. You’re not yet ready to look inward.

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30 DAY MONEY BACK GUARANTEE

If you’ve done the course and we can’t help you get what you’re here for, we will refund 100% of your purchase.

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