Private support is your BEST option if
- you and your partner are struggling. For example you have a lot of emotional distance or high levels of conflict, or unresolved relationship injuries with each other, with parents or with family members
- you are single and looking to change future relationship patterns by healing your past history and unresolved relationship injuries
Private Support offers you
- highly skilled support
- a proven methodology with clear steps and stages
- deep transformation of blocks to intimacy
- privacy and unconditional warmth and regard
Your Initial Consultation is 90 minutes in length and follow-on appointments are 75 minutes.
How many appointments will you need?
Every relationship’s process has its own duration. It depends on past distress, current distress and each person’s personality and current relationship awareness. Generally between 12 – 20 appointments are required.**
** If you participate in the Online Connection Essentials Course this shortens the number of sessions required.
If we meet face to face, then we will see each other at Tranquillo Place, Mona Vale, NSW 2103. I may also be able to work with you online.
Unfortunately I don’t currently offer online consultations to folks in the USA or North America due to insurance limitations. I do want you to get support so please search here for someone local to see or contact me and I will let you know as soon as this changes.
If you think you need help, you probably do. Most people postpone getting help way too long. Research shows as long as 6 years after their first inkling. I understand it can be a confronting thought to open up about your relationship.
In reality this is a very gentle act of love for yourselves and your relationship. Rather than me giving you answers I will help you bring forward the answers you have within you, but have not been able to access or express.
Getting private support is a non-judgmental, supportive step.
Here is what an initially reluctant, now happy Garry said to me “I wish we had found you 34 years ago!” at the time Garry was 68 years of age, married for 36 years.
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“I have been involved in human development and relationship healing work for 24 years. I have learnt from the best in the world and Mukti is easily the most skillful relationship therapist I have ever known or worked with. She just gets it, on every level. I trust her with my own marriage. I cannot give a higher recommendation than that.”
Michael Buntingbestselling author & mindfulness teacher
I’m a Psychotherapist, wife and mother. So when I went looking for a couples therapist, I searched for the best in the field. I wasn’t disappointed! Mukti helped my husband and I on the way to healing the resentments that had amounted in our 18 year-long relationship, enhanced our communication skills and transition into parenthood. She is compassionate, empathic, objective and is a highly skilled therapist. I have no hesitation in recommending Mukti to friends and clients who are seeking couples or family counselling.
Jodie GalePsychotherapist, Sydney
I have to admit that I was sceptical at first, having had relationship counselling in the past. I had basically lost hope in us, but with Mukti’s insightful and practical help my wife and I have returned from the brink and are well on the way to a sharing our life together in happiness and Love. I can’t speak highly enough of Mukti’s skills and highly recommend her. Bruce, Sydney
BruceHusband, Dad and Managing Director, Sydney
Online Learning or In-Person Support?
Both is best! Our Online Courses are an incredibly powerful additional support for you if you are engaging in In-Person Support.
Specifically, completing the Connection Essentials online course, will often HALVE the number of private sessions required. That’s a big saving in time and money for you!
The courses enhance your capacity to experience and understand emotions and engage in your sessions.
They also contain the pieces of the Positive Cycle of Connection which you are moving toward. And make these conscious 🙂
I recommend anyone undertaking the private sessions back up those powerful learnings with the Connection Essentials (CE) online course. It really helped and clarified the process or journey we were on in the private sessions. CE acted as an excellent reference and a source of support when I couldn’t access a private session.
G.C.Wife, Mum and Corporate Consultant, Sydney
It’s not enough for an intimate relationship that is experiencing difficulties, to only learn new communication methods. Whilst the words you use and the way you listen are profoundly important, in an intimate relationship there are many subtle cues that get triggered. The emotion behind the words and actions holds the secret solution. A fully trained Emotionally Focused Therapist will help you dissolve carefully your armour and distance that gets in the way of your connecting.
You have all the pieces for information and healing. Over 30 years of research guides us in helping you through 3 important phases to re-discovering your loving, peaceful, passionate connection as a couple. So what is offered through Everyday Love is a method with a definitive path. As opposed to advice, counsel or mediating your differences.
Our approach is based on Emotionally Focused Couple Therapy which has a success rate of 70%.
Traditionally it was thought that individual counselling was the way to go. ”If I sort out my issues and you sort out yours – everything between us will be fine”.
There are pieces of the puzzle which none of us can see as clearly as our partner. So working with both of you together is the ideal. Individual work may be recommended in parallel on occasion*.
You will make faster and more complete progress if you can do this together.
* The few situations where an individual session is useful can be clarified over the phone or in your Initial Consultation.
This is not necessarily the end of trust and love. Come in for an Initial Consultation to learn more about how your Couples Coaching will address this. It essential that the additional intimate relationship be discontinued before really diving into the deeper work of healing the bond in your relationship. It is my experience that trust and connection can be restored.
Yes absolutely. Every relationship is different and your coaching is impartial and supportive of love and the relationship.
First book your Initial Consultation (90 minutes) then we all get to see if there is a match. By the end of this session we will have a pathway sketched out and usually an insight surfaces which is immediately helpful.
I see couples or individuals for 12 – 20 sessions (75 minute sessions usually 1 – 2 weeks apart.) How frequently depends on your goals, the emotional situation internally and in the relationship, availability and your resources. I don’t wish for anyone to ‘miss out’ so I aim to make sure anyone who wants to see me manages to get the support they need. I also refer folks on to others if I believe that another person would be a better match. I won’t leave you hanging.