PRIVATE SUPPORT

Private support is your BEST option if

  • you and your partner are struggling. For example you have a lot of emotional distance or high levels of conflict, or unresolved relationship injuries with each other, with parents or with family members
  • you are single and looking to change future relationship patterns by healing your past history and unresolved relationship injuries


Private Support offers you

  • highly skilled support
  • a proven methodology with clear steps and stages
  • deep transformation of blocks to intimacy
  • privacy and unconditional warmth and regard


Time Investment

Your Initial Consultation is 90 minutes in length and follow-on appointments are 75 minutes.

How many appointments will you need?
Every relationship’s process has its own duration.  It depends on past distress, current distress and each person’s personality and current relationship awareness. Generally between 12 – 20 appointments are required.


First step

I handle all my private appointment bookings personally. Book for an initial consultation saying whether you are seeking online or in-person consultations. If you live in the USA or Canada, I don’t offer online consultations to folks in the USA or North America due to insurance limitations. I do want you to get support so please search here for someone local to see.

If you are outside of the USA and North America and are seeking online consultations, send me an enquiry please and indicate you are interested in online support. I will call you to discuss suitability for online with you.  It isn’t suitable for all situations.

If we meet face to face, then we will see each other at Warriewood, NSW 2102 Australia. I work from Rock Lily Natural Health Care.


Encouragement

If you think you need help, you probably do. Most people postpone getting help way too long. Research shows as long as 6 years after their first inkling. I understand it can be a confronting thought to open up about your relationship.

In reality this is a very gentle act of love for yourselves and your relationship. Rather than me giving you answers I will help you bring forward the answers you have within you, but have not been able to access or express.

Getting private support is a non-judgmental, supportive step.

Here is what an initially reluctant, now happy Garry said to me “I wish we had found you 34 years ago!” at the time Garry was 68 years of age, married for 36 years.

Now is better than later 🙂


Make an Appointment

Book your Initial Consultation or have questions answered by contacting me personally just click HERE

ONLINE LEARNING OR IN-PERSON SUPPORT?

Our Online Learning provides a marvellous additional support for you if you are engaging in In-Person Support.  It enhances your capacity to experience and understand emotions and engage in your sessions.

FAQ

It’s not enough for an intimate relationship that is experiencing difficulties, to only learn new communication methods. Whilst the words you use and the way you listen are profoundly important, in an intimate relationship there are many subtle cues that get triggered. The emotion behind the words and actions holds the secret solution. A fully trained Emotionally Focused Therapist will help you dissolve carefully your armour and distance that gets in the way of your connecting.

You have all the pieces for information and healing.  Over 30 years of research guides us in helping you through 3 important phases to re-discovering your loving, peaceful, passionate connection as a couple. So what is offered through Everyday Love is a method with a definitive path.  As opposed to advice, counsel or mediating your differences.

Our approach is based on Emotionally Focused Couple Therapy which has a success rate of  70%.

Traditionally it was thought that individual counselling was the way to go.  ”If I sort out my issues and you sort out yours – everything between us will be fine”.

There are pieces of the puzzle which none of us can see as clearly as our partner. So working with both of you together is the ideal.  Individual work may be recommended in parallel on occasion*.

You will make faster and more complete progress if you can do this together.

* The few situations where an individual session is useful can be clarified over the phone or in your Initial Consultation.

This is not necessarily the end of trust and love.  Come in for an Initial Consultation to learn more about how your Couples Coaching will address this.  It essential that the additional intimate relationship be discontinued before really diving into the deeper work of healing the bond in your relationship.  It is my experience that trust and connection can be restored.

Yes absolutely.  Every relationship is different and your coaching is impartial and supportive of love and the relationship.

First book your Initial Consultation (90 minutes) then we all get to see if there is a match.  By the end of this session we will have a pathway sketched out and usually an insight surfaces which is immediately helpful.

I see couples or individuals for 12 – 20 sessions (75 minute sessions usually 1 – 2 weeks apart.) How frequently depends on your goals, the emotional situation internally and in the relationship, availability and your resources.  I don’t wish for anyone to ‘miss out’ so I aim to make sure anyone who wants to see me manages to get the support they need.  I also refer folks on to others if I believe that another person would be a better match. I won’t leave you hanging.

What others say

“I have to admit that I was sceptical at first, having had relationship counselling in the past. I had basically lost hope in us, but with Linda’s insightful and practical help my wife and I have returned from the brink and are well on the way to a sharing our life together in happiness and Love. I can’t speak highly enough of Linda’s skills and highly recommend her”.

~ Bruce, Sydney