Back To Love

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Back To Love


When love is still here, but closeness is no longer easy

A reset for couples who are tired of hurting each other and don’t know how to stop.
START BACK TO LOVE TODAY

 

You’re not where you planned.

You’re self-aware. You don’t sit around and leave things unsolved. You’re growth-oriented. You’ve invested in yourself — personal development, couples counselling and maybe even spiritual practice. You know who you are.

But somewhere at home, with the person you love most, a quieter, scratchy, un-you version of you shows up in your couple relationship. 

You filter yourself. You hold things back, then your emotions pop. Your efforts to keep the peace aren’t sustainable without slowly, almost invisibly, costing the connection in your relationship.

You still love each other — but the question is whether you’re can truly connected, here with each other?

The good days are good. It’s the in-between moments that tell the truth.

Conversations stay on the surface. The real things don’t get said. The feeling of distance from each other – it’s time for change.

You haven’t given up.

It’s just there’s a gap between who you are and who you’re being together. And for you — that gap is painful, and impossible to ignore.

Wanting more isn’t ungrateful. It’s a honest quest. And it might be the most loving action you bring your relationship.

COME BACK TO EACH OTHER

Here’s what rarely gets said.

The awareness, intention and tools that work everywhere else in your life — they only take you so far here.

Not because you’re doing it wrong.

Because relationship isn’t a problem to be solved from the outside.

It’s an inside job.

Like most couples, you don’t need more techniques or rules.

You need to understand what’s actually happening inside you — before you say a word, before the conversation goes sideways, before the distance opens up again.

In Back to Love, you’ll learn how to:

  • Recognise when you’re responding from survival mode rather than presence — and gently find your way 
  • Be more real with each other without ending up nowhere
  • Move through emotional tension without losing connection
  • Understand what’s actually happening in the moments you disconnect — not just what triggered it
  • Create a new response that serves you both — not just one of you

This isn’t about perfect communication.

It’s about two self-aware people finally understanding their relational inner landscape — and meeting each other there.

Because you both want genuine intimacy. Mutual awareness. The safety to be fully yourselves with each other.

Even on the days where you start out distant. Even when the words don’t come easily.

From working with thousands of couples – Love doesn’t disappear. But it does need a secure place to  land.

Back To Love is...

The foundation course you can move through on a weekend — and feel something genuinely shift by Monday.

Even if your partner doesn’t watch a single video.

Built on 40+ years of proven emotional research — not social media advice or personal opinion — you’ll finally see:

  • Why you keep arriving at the same stuck places — even though you’ve both tried to change
  • What’s actually happening inside you in the moments connection breaks down
  • How your emotional blueprints were formed — and how they’re quietly running your relationship without your permission
  • How to gently lead the way back to each other — even when it feels hard.

What participants say …

"Wow, I found this eye opening. I've taken lots of relationship type courses, but this hit deep but not heavy and it's actually worked. Feeling different.
Michelle
WA Australia
"We went through the course together and are surprised to feel much closer and less tense. What was upsetting us has shifted and it feels softer between us again.
J.D
VIC Australia
"There's so much stuff in the Back To Love course. I repeated it today and learned even more. It's supportive, insightful and useful. Thank you Mukti.
Alan
VIC Australia
"I'm shocked! I thought she was just more emotional than me ... turns out I wasn't hearing what was underneath. I feel better and I want to do whatever it takes to reconnect with her.
David
NSW Australia


What you'll learn …

🔍 The #1 pattern that’s pushing you apart — and why the more you try to fix it, the worse it gets
 (Yes, even if you’ve been trying to be the “calm one” for months.)

💬 Exactly what to do in that moment — when the tone shifts, the wall goes up, and the distance creeps in
 (Because you know when it’s happening. You just haven’t known what to do with it — until now.)

🧭 A simple 3-step process to calm your nervous system in under 6 minutes
 So you don’t spiral, shut down, or say the thing you regret — again.

👁 The missing emotional knowledge most couples never learn — and why it’s the reason you’re not hearing (or being heard)
 It’s not your communication style. It’s this.

💡 The real reason your partner feels like a stranger — and how to rebuild connection without ‘the big talk’ on repeat
 You don’t need another conversation. You need a new lens

🖼️ Downloadable ‘emotional blueprints’ you’ll actually refer to mid-argument
 You’ll hear their sigh and know exactly what’s happening underneath — and what to do.

🛑 How to stop reading everything they say as criticism
 (and how to stop sounding like you’re criticising, even when you think you’re being helpful)

💔 The invisible emotional defence that makes love feel impossible — and how to shift it without therapy
 You don’t need to be “good at feelings.” You just need to understand this one thing.




Who's Guiding You Back To Love?

Hi, I’m Mukti.

For over 20 years, I’ve sat with couples at kitchen tables and on therapy couches, helping them untangle decades of distance and disconnection.

I’m an internationally accredited Emotionally Focused Couples Therapist, Nonviolent Communication Trainer, and Chi For Two Embodiment Coach and Trainer (R/SMET) — but more than that, I’m someone who’s obsessed with the moments where it clicks again.

Where two people start to see each other clearly, maybe for the first time in years.

This course distills the exact patterns I’ve seen play out behind closed doors — and the powerful tools that bring people back to safety, softness, and real connection.

It’s based on the pivotal work of three giants! Dr. Sue Johnson and the science of adult attachment. Dee Wagner’s profound body-oriented processes and the revolutionary work of Dr Marshall Rosenberg, on communication and needs consciousness.

I’ve made it all deeply usable. Gentle. No psychobabble. No pressure.

Just a new way to see the old dynamics… and a very real way back to each other.

Mukti Jarvis Emotionally Focused Therapist

The research behind this…

Back To Love isn’t personal opinion. It is what the research actually shows — translated into something you can feel and use immediately.

Dr Sue Johnson

Creator of Emotionally Focused Therapy, whose research shows that emotional safety is the foundation of lasting love.

Dr Marshall Rosenberg

Creator of Compassionate Communication, (NVC) whose work transforms the way we express ourselves and hear each other.

Dee Wagner

Creator of Chi For Two, whose somatic approach brings the body's intelligence into the way we connect and repair in two person relationship.

Special Bonuses

+ What to do When You're Upset

+ stop seeing your partner as the problem

+ Regulate Reactivity:
A Micro-Practice for Real Conflict

Think you’re not good with feelings? What if it’s not as confusing as you think? 

These bonuses will walk you through feelings so you can get comfortable with them and are able to move toward new intimacy and connection! 

Emotions are the life blood of relationship when we can be with them in a healthy way. They can open you up to healthy vulnerability and intimacy – only when you know what to do with them AND what NOT to do with them.

Back To Love Course

BACK TO LOVE

because we want the door to the relationship you want, to be wide open

$ 39
  • Access to 3 Core Modules, 11 Topics!
  • Downloadable visuals and support pages
  • Zero fluff! Just guidance that works.
  • Lifetime access
YES, READY TO START 🙂
(And yes, you’ll feel a shift even if your partner never watches a video.) ** Prices are in AUD **

Still Wondering?

 That’s okay. This is built for you — and designed to work whether you’re navigating this solo or together.

Because therapy is deep. This is direct. You don’t need 10 sessions to understand why you’re stuck. You need the right lens. And that’s what this gives you. You might go on to therapy and if you do, you’ll know you’ve got a head start!

You will gain understanding about avoiding disconnecting and blocking connection and creating a loving connection.

Everything you learn is related to your life and relationships through practical exercises. You can ask questions in Love and Us – my open facebook group or book for private support if needed.

If you watch the videos, complete the exercises and try the tools, and nothing shifts — we’ll refund you. But most people come back saying this changed things faster than they thought possible.

Most people invest about 60-90 minutes.

Yes you can book an appointment for an Introductory Session, to get private therapy assistance (depending on availability). 

Yes if you’re curious, growth-oriented, and not willing to spend the rest of your life in a relationship that doesn’t reflect who you’ve become.

You’ve invested in your own development and you’re ready to bring that same commitment to your partnership.

You don’t need to be in crisis. You just need to be honest enough to feel the gap — and ready enough to do something real about it.

It’s not for you if:
You’re looking for ways to manage or change your partner. You want quick fixes without self-reflection. You’re not yet ready to look inward.

I'M READY — START BACK TO LOVE TODAY

30 DAY MONEY BACK GUARANTEE

If you’ve done the course and we can’t help you get what you’re here for, we will refund 100% of your purchase.

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