Connection Essentials

Online lessons

Feel loved and happier again!

Do your conversations often feel heavy, weighed down by logistics, children, and work? Are you tired of trying to avoid arguments, feeling more like mates than lovers, even when you’re talking? The truth is, continuing this way costs you precious intimacy and connection. Help is here! 

It’s normal to wish you could feel open, on the same page and loved by your partner, without misunderstandings or conflict overwhelming you both.

You’re not alone—Many of us never learned how to truly connect through conversation—to build trust, deepen intimacy, and feel truly heard. And if you’ve been relying on a weekend away to fix things, you know it often doesn’t go too well, right? No one wants to get there and have that argument. 

You **CAN**

  • have beautiful everyday conversations that are intimate and nurture your relationship.
  • address tough topics and come to solutions feeling closer than ever!  

Let me show you how to experience this profound shift!

That’s exactly what the Connection Essentials Online Course is here to help you do. You’ve found a proven, warm, practical, and effective way forward for communication in your relationship.*What you learn here will build upon Back To Love, or you can go ahead without that. 

Connection Essentials is a stand-alone, self-paced course rooted in Compassionate Communication (NVC*). It offers four simple but powerful keys to build empathy, honesty, and emotional presence, with your partner and in yourself.

How you communicate truly shapes warmth, intimacy, and security in your relationship, like nothing else. In “Magnificent Sex: Lessons from Extraordinary Lovers,” the largest in-depth interview study ever conducted, couples consciously prioritised developing their communication skills because they understood its profound impact on their connection. Connection leads to true intimacy.

Even if your partner doesn’t take the course, you’ll gain valuable skills that can build depth and strength in your relationship. This means you can start transforming your connection today, regardless of their immediate involvement.

You can begin now and start creating the connected, loving relationship you deserve!

Mukti Jarvis Emotionally Focused Therapist

What you'll discover

Look & See!

Connection Essentials For Love
$ 59
  • Access to 10 modules containing 29 topics
  • Downloadable illustrations for easy reference
  • Easy worksheets for everyday use
  • Bonus: Four Ways To Hear A Message
  • Bonus: Being comfortable with feelings
  • Excludes Related Course: "Back To Love - Two Things To Know"

SEEK & Find!

Connection Essentials For Love
$ 119
  • Access to 10 modules containing 29 topics
  • Downloadable illustrations for easy reference
  • Easy worksheets for everyday use
  • Bonus: Four Ways To Hear A Message
  • Bonus: Being comfortable with feelings
  • Bonus Course: "Back To Love - Two Things To Know"
  • "Arguing That Connects" Guide
  • Recordings of Past Live Group Coaching
  • Certificate of completion
  • All future updates and additions
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What's Inside?

Module 1 – Connecting to yourself

  • Calm and collect yourself if triggered by your partner
  • Give up blame and be proactive about your emotions and needs
  • Know what matters most to you at any point, so you shape your life and relationship from this clarity
  • Be honest and compassionate with yourself, so you can show up like this for your partner too

Module 2 – Listening Deeply

  • Listen skilfully to your partner and through this create safe loving space for deep connection
  • Understand how to bring empathy during difficult conversations with your partner, so healing can happen
  • Give the experience of truly being heard to your partner
  • Listen and uncover the REAL issue so you can address what is important effectively

Module 3 – Speaking Up

  • Say what you really want to say with compassion and so you can be fully understood by your partner
  • Express yourself so you tend to ‘pull’ for connection with you partner, rather than trigger emotional distance or upset
  • Put the essence of what you need to say to your partner clearly so you can build strong connection
  • Ask for what you want and need in ways that are attractive and clear

Module 4 – Putting it all together

    • Converse in a way which supports open and real connection with your partner
    • Recognise when it’s time to speak, listen or switch over to understanding your own thoughts, feelings and needs
    • Find out how to heal and strengthen connection through everyday conversations with your partner

* Discover Your Real Feelings – video course.

Time Involved

  • Approximately 5 hours, that you can spread out to suit yourself. 
  • Practice as you go through your daily life
  • Some people like to go through it all and then focus on application
  • Revisit your Connection Essentials portal anytime
  • Let Mukti know you want to join the next Live Group Coaching Round

FAQ

Is This For Me?

MONEY BACK GUARANTEE

If you’ve completed your course, done the handy exercises and feedback and we can’t help you get what you want from your Course Membership, we’ll refund you – no worries.

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