People create relationships from the inside out. When we want to change our relationships, it’s an inside job.

Mukti Jarvis

Mukti Jarvis (mook-tea) is a warm, skilful experiential attachment-oriented relationship therapist with over 20 years experience, and a vast amount of practical, in-the-trenches knowledge, wisdom and effectiveness. 

She brings an in-depth understanding of childhood caregiver and adult romantic relationships, healing, repairing these bonds, and is known for facilitating growth, change and deep transformation. Mukti is a …

  • Certified EFT Therapist (EFCT and EFIT): This is a gold standard in couples therapy. Certification comes with rigorous training, supervision, and a deep understanding of attachment and emotional dynamics. 

  • Accredited Chi For Two Embodiment Coach and Trainer (R/ISMETA): This adds a unique and powerful somatic (body-based) dimension, which is highly sought after and often missing in traditional couples work. 

  • Certified Trainer of Nonviolent Communication (CNVC): NVC is a powerful communication framework that directly addresses conflict, connection and successful vulnerability in conversations. 

Mukti is a member of The International Centre for Excellence in Emotionally Focused Therapy (ICEEFT), the International Center for Nonviolent Communication (CNVC), and the Melbourne Community for EFT Therapists (MCEFT – past Vice President). She is also a member of the International Somatic Movement Educators and Therapists Association (ISMETA)

Often at the forefront, discovering new therapeutic methods, Mukti was fortunate to learn directly from the late founder of CNVC, Dr. Marshall Rosenberg, in Switzerland, the USA and Australia, before co-training with him in New Zealand. Leading to Mukti being one of the original CNVC educators in Australia (2002) and was a founder of the Embodying NVC Retreat and Coaching Program. She is grateful to be trained and mentored by Dee Wagner, the founder of Chi For Two; and was fortunate to be in the first generation of Australian EFT Therapists, 14 years ago. 

Prior to becoming a relationship therapist, Mukti had an extensive history in both corporate and private sector business, in HR and General Management.  Throughout her professional life, human connection, emotional honesty, dignity, and well-being have been the priority.

Her inclusive private practice is for all those in intimate relationship/s or wanting to be, including those considering dating.

Mukti is available to contribute to media discussions and publications.

She meets with clients locally and internationally via Zoom. 

Mukti is a member of:
International Center for Excellence in EFT
Melbourne Center for EFT
International Center for Nonviolent Communication
NVC Australia
International Institute for Complementary Therapists
International Somatic Movement and Educators and Therapists Association 

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Mukti Jarvis Emotionally Focused Therapist

What is Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)?

EFT is an experiential therapy that looks at your relationship as a system and an important emotional attachment bond. It is a well-researched scientific model of romantic relationships (Johnson, 2019). It has been validated by outcome research (Wiebe & Johnson, 2016) to provide evidence that it  successfully helps couples repair relationship distress and improve relationship satisfaction with long-term success. EFT has a 75% success rate. 90% of those who don’t complete the full process, report an improvement in their relationship. EFT has three sequential stages: 

  1. De-escalating your friction disconnection/ distancing cycle; 
  2. Restructuring your bond; 
  3. Integrating your new flow/ positive cycle 

Years after completing this process couples report their relationship is increasingly loving and resilient. EFT is relevant for all relationships.

Mukti’s self-paced Back To Love Online Course will help you start on #1 above. You can take that first step from home!

What is NONVIOLENT COMMUNICATION (NVC)?

NVC is simple and empowering way of reframing how you relate, so that you feed the positive cycle of connection in your relationship. Rather than the negative cycle. NVC leads to a continual deepening of emotional intimacy and connection. It starts by helping you make sense of yourself every day, interaction by interaction. It guides you to truly understand your partner. It also teaches you how to build trust for each other.

With NVC you learn to clearly hear and respond to your own deeper needs and those of others. Through its emphasis on deep empathic listening—to yourself as well as others—NVC helps you bring compassion into your relationship.

Even if only one of you learns NVC, it can help you have better interactions.

You can begin know how to build compassion and connection in your relationship, through Mukti’s self-paced  Connection Essentials Online Course today!

WHAT IS CHI FOR TWO?

Chi for Two is a mindful embodiment method approved by ISMETA, which means it emphasises a natural, body-centered way of relating to yourself and others.

So instead of reacting from thoughts about what you should, have to, or must do—that are responses that are driven by pressure or conditioning; Chi for Two helps you relate from the ‘play-dance’ energy of get to! Enabling you to get to be your authentic, uninhibited self.

As Chi For Two includes what can’t be put into words, it is incredibly efficient and deeply transformative. It complements traditional relationship talk-based models, to bring fresh wholeness to your mind, body, and Self.